Sunday, November 27, 2011

Some quick details

Well, I don't know how many people actually still read this blog, as it has been MONTHS since I posted anything of substance, but I just want to say a few things about this amazing man I'm dating. Here are some things. . .

1) He received a testimony of the truthfulness of the LDS church while kneeling in prayer in a privy (nose toward toilet paper, not urinal, he will always add) in the middle of a sandstorm in Iraq in 2003. He was in the army for 9 years. We met in church.

2) He has 2 cute and lovable children, Eddie (5) and Leila (almost 4) of whom he has full custody. It is awesome to see this tough military guy so soft and nurturing and loving with his children.

3) He is a sculptor of wood and stone and is getting his BFA at Pacific Northwest College of Art.

4) He is, most definitely, without a doubt, heterosexual and is freaking hard-core. We share an interest in getting off the grid and living as local as possible, as well as an interest in outdoor survival skills.

5) He is manly and knows how to build stuff/ fix stuff

6) He plays the guitar and figured out the mandolin in about 2 minutes flat.

7) In true Hilary tradition, he is almost 2 years younger than I am.

8) I knew he was a keeper when he said he would run the Cascade Lakes Relay with me this summer. He is a generous boyfriend, in that he doesn't mind running as slow as I do. That, my friends, is true love.

9) Maybe the most important thing is that he completely loves and respects me exactly how I am. He accepts me and Jude as a package deal and is committed to our comfort and welfare. I have never felt so sure of anyone's love, and I feel totally cherished and protected with him.

I hope that answers some questions, especially the question, "Where is that Hilary lately? I haven't heard from her in a couple months now!" Naturally.

13 comments:

  1. Wait, let me add one more thing. . . He likes my hair short, and has said a few times, "Don't grow your hair out. This just fits you so well". A man who understands the value of short hair on a woman. I'll take him!

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  2. Wow, congratulations. Sounds like you are undoubtedly happy! It is so great that you are so happy- you deserve it!

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  3. Happy day!!! :) You sound happy and excited. Love you!!

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  4. So, SO happy for you Hilary!! He sounds wonderful!!

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  5. Okay, this made me cry real tears. This post is not just about Jeff harris to me, it's about hope, and faith, and trusting God with our lives. You are amazing Hilary, and I knew you'd find happiness wherever you went! I love you!

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  6. so excited for the both of you:) can't wait for the next up date;)

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  7. Rad Hil!! You deserve every bit of that happiness!

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  8. Just found out my good friend who's been trying for kids for 5 years now is pregnant with twins, now this. God is good. This makes me very happy, Hilary!!!

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  9. Okay thanks...I spoke with your mom at Thanksgiving and she said you are really happy and in a good place right now! See! Better things were right around the corner...you deserve it! Love you!

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  10. That "Unknown" was me Hilary, MaryAnn Alley :)

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  11. Hilary, I love you and can hardly wait to meet this wonderful guy. He better treat you and Jude well because I'm coming to check him out. ( with gentleness and no judgement, of course.).

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  12. Hello Hillary! Sounds like you are doing well. Keep blogging sistah! Love you!

    Tammie

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